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Values & Wishes

Decisions rooted in the person

Definition
Centering care decisions on what the person values, fears, and hopes for — not just what's medically possible, but what aligns with their life and priorities.

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Beyond advance directives

Legal documents are important, but values go deeper — how does this person define quality of life? What are their fears about aging and dying? What brings them joy?

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Having the conversations

I help families explore these questions before crisis forces them. We talk about hard topics with care and respect — and document what we learn.

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Values-driven decisions

When you know someone's values, even hard decisions become clearer. You're not guessing what they'd want — you know, and you can honor it.

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